So, We now [finally] have mobile operations working properly on the iPhone. I had to change themes in wordpress to do it and then had to do some editing of the css to get everything wedged in the same way. Still working on the menus, but the content all looks good for now.
Update: Okay, so everything I needed was already there. Just had to use the tech properly. RTFM! :) Menus; check, mobile: check, pages: check. Good to go!